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终究胜过千年的独自飞翔 ♥ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.comBlogger180125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-65196093993948996512013-12-07T01:49:00.001+08:002013-12-07T01:49:22.769+08:00我不难过近这两年,所受的委屈大大小小总会有些。<br />
但受了委屈而在夜里哭泣的,也大概就那两次。<br />
第一次,2012年十二月二十二日,伦敦。<br />
第二次,2013年十二月六日,吉隆坡。<br />
貌似十二月对我不好=,(<br />
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工作上遇到什么不顺心,我告诉自己可以熬过去。<br />
学业上遇到的难题,我告诉自己总会有办法解决。<br />
但那两次,我不知道可以再为自己的难过找些什么慰籍。<br />
因为这两次都同为亲人,虽然不再是同一个人。<br />
你们的不谅解和理解,我不懂该怎么样做。<br />
或许我想要的那片天空,在地球的另一端。<br />
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告诉自己,我不难过。<br />
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惰性真的可以把我吞噬掉!!<br />
原以为最最有把握的一科却在这种情况下落幕。<br />
我不知道幸运女神还会不会继续眷顾我,但我承诺我会尽力!<br />
我知道,踮起脚尖,就更靠近梦想一些=)<br />
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时间一天一天地过去,才发现以前写的光阴似箭岁月如梭一点儿都不夸张。<br />
就快踏入6月份了,已经可以倒数回家的日子了。<br />
就在我千盼万盼考试的日子结束后,我,竟然有点不舍。<br />
开始舍不得我的学校,房间,在这里结识的朋友,还有一堆有的没的。<br />
我不知道以后还会不会有机会再回来,但难保景物依旧,人面也依旧。<br />
在英国的这段日子,虽然我真的很讨厌这里的教育方式(我承认我比较适合填鸭式),<br />
但在这里,我拥有了很多很多跟自己独处的时间。<br />
倚靠着这座靠海的城市,常爱一个人去海边吹海风。<br />
喜欢被海风轻拂脸庞,然后一个人思考。<br />
我一直相信,幸福快乐的日子终有一天会降临。<br />
心永远向往着未来,现在却常是忧郁的。<br />
一切都是瞬息,一切都将会过去,<br />
而那过去了的,就会成为亲切的怀恋。<br />
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太过明白,生活本是折腾。<br />
但有时候,就想大哭一场,因为心里憋屈。<br />
有时候,就想疯癫一下,因为情绪低落。<br />
有时候,就想破口大骂,因为心里不爽。<br />
有时候,就想安安静静,因为真的累了。<br />
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听着新歌的旋律和歌词,<br />
到底是什么触动了那条神经大条,<br />
竟然在大庭广众大哭起来。<br />
或许真的以为把一些事埋藏在心底的最深处,<br />
不去碰它、想它,<br />
就以为它不存在了。<br />
在忙着往前看的同时,才发现原来它被我放在最珍贵的角落。<br />
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真心庆幸自己喜欢了对的榜样,因为榜样的力量,<br />
激励我做到最完美的自己。<br />
但愿我的祝福可以送给远方的他们。<br />
加油,共同成长,共同进步,为梦想插上翅膀,一起飞翔=)<br />
<br />ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-32149158706329035172013-03-28T06:41:00.001+08:002013-03-28T06:41:24.291+08:002013.3.27 英国<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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好久没来这里,冷落这里好久了。</div>
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其实还蛮喜欢写博的,留下些只字片语,点点滴滴给未来的自己<img alt="" real_src="http://www.sinaimg.cn/uc/myshow/blog/misc/gif/E___6713EN00SIGG.gif" src="http://www.sinaimg.cn/uc/myshow/blog/misc/gif/E___6713EN00SIGG.gif" style="border: 0px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" title="" type="face" /></div>
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来了英国以后,其实有很多生活习惯都改变了,心态也有了转变。虽然很难具体地说明,但是自己还是可以感觉得到。</div>
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伦敦奥运会以后,开始注意一位很棒的运动员。然后开始搜索她的资料,然后很不经意地找到了她的博客&微博,还有支持她的球迷会。</div>
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在她身上我学会了很多很多。一个好的榜样会让你受益终身,教会我们做人和生活的道理,感恩<img class=" dn" crs="http://mat1.gtimg.com/www/mb/images/face/66.gif" src="http://mat1.gtimg.com/www/mb/images/face/66.gif" style="background-color: white; border: 0px; color: #333333; display: inline; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 23px; vertical-align: middle;" title="爱心" /> 我衷心地祝她幸福!</div>
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<span style="color: #323e32; font-family: 宋体; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">只要心里充满阳光,就不会害怕黑暗:)</span></div>
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<span style="color: #323e32; font-family: 宋体;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">加油,愿我们能共同成长,共同进步,给梦想插上翅膀,一起飞翔 </span></span><img class=" dn" crs="http://mat1.gtimg.com/www/mb/images/face/66.gif" src="http://mat1.gtimg.com/www/mb/images/face/66.gif" style="background-color: white; border: 0px; color: #333333; display: inline; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 23px; vertical-align: middle;" title="爱心" /></div>
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给力给力!</div>
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Follow your dr<span style="background-color: transparent;">eams~</span></div>
ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-7000687001135170382013-01-31T00:26:00.002+08:002013-01-31T00:26:21.989+08:00幸运星,在那里?<br />
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我的快乐,要无限放大,让身边每个人都能看得到,能感染得到。<br />
我的伤悲,要折叠起来,不断折小,小心翼翼地放进口袋,没人能发现,躲起来,撕掉,结束!<br />
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有时候太想做好一件事,才会更害怕做得不够好,害怕承受不了的失败。<br />
在我连自己都不相信我自己的时候,<br />
真希望有你们的鼓励、支持和陪伴。<br />
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一个人的异乡,我会好好过。<br />
颖,加油!ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-74066466216095429782012-09-11T01:01:00.002+08:002012-09-11T01:01:43.332+08:00..朋友的一个小动作,<br />
不管是有心的还是无意的,<br />
都可以让人心碎 =(ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-47894865653219280952012-06-24T22:33:00.002+08:002012-06-24T22:38:23.334+08:00心旅<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="color: magenta; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; text-align: center;">因为心里住着的那一个人,</span><br /><span style="background-color: white; text-align: center;">所以更有勇气去面对未来许多的未知数.</span></span><br />
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</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-6187272347750537882012-04-12T17:08:00.003+08:002012-04-12T21:34:01.672+08:00。<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghX-TYlLvMkfYXf3a6DwKtpltVZH49MGBnp7szBDOchxA930EBN1gYOQST_DQ-uXGK7nBRo2dTROS40aw19vwsnE4WYpFjn4e58eFhbZWBZ0MQKOZF7LmL6N6aXhtU8BDnFivHPgCOZ4PM/s1600/%25E4%25B8%258D%25E8%25A6%2581%25E5%25A4%25AA%25E9%2581%258E%25E6%2596%25BC%25E5%259C%25A8%25E4%25B9%258E%25E4%25B8%2580%25E4%25BB%25B6%25E4%25BA%258B%25EF%25BC%258C%25E5%259B%25A0%25E7%2588%25B2%25E6%259C%2580%25E5%25A5%25BD%25E7%259A%2584%25E6%2580%25BB%25E4%25BC%259A%25E5%259C%25A8%25E6%259C%2580%25E4%25B8%258D%25E7%25BB%258F%25E6%2584%258F%25E7%259A%2584%25E6%2597%25B6%25E5%2580%2599%25E5%2587%25BA%25E7%258E%25B0%25E3%2580%2582.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghX-TYlLvMkfYXf3a6DwKtpltVZH49MGBnp7szBDOchxA930EBN1gYOQST_DQ-uXGK7nBRo2dTROS40aw19vwsnE4WYpFjn4e58eFhbZWBZ0MQKOZF7LmL6N6aXhtU8BDnFivHPgCOZ4PM/s320/%25E4%25B8%258D%25E8%25A6%2581%25E5%25A4%25AA%25E9%2581%258E%25E6%2596%25BC%25E5%259C%25A8%25E4%25B9%258E%25E4%25B8%2580%25E4%25BB%25B6%25E4%25BA%258B%25EF%25BC%258C%25E5%259B%25A0%25E7%2588%25B2%25E6%259C%2580%25E5%25A5%25BD%25E7%259A%2584%25E6%2580%25BB%25E4%25BC%259A%25E5%259C%25A8%25E6%259C%2580%25E4%25B8%258D%25E7%25BB%258F%25E6%2584%258F%25E7%259A%2584%25E6%2597%25B6%25E5%2580%2599%25E5%2587%25BA%25E7%258E%25B0%25E3%2580%2582.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5730448320219447570" /></a><br /><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">昨天的印尼发生了8.9级的大地震。</span></span><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">很可怕。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">可怕在于,人类是如此的渺小,生命是如此的脆弱。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">纵使我们有再多的不愿意,却也无力去改变什么。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">在朋友的部落格看到,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">“明天没有更好,怎么办?”</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">看到这个标题,犹如棒头当喝。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">是的,无法预料的天灾人祸突然的降临,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我们的明天没有更好,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">或者说,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我们没有明天,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">那该怎么办?</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我不懂。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我真的不懂。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我只知道我还有太多太多的事情还未完成。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我还来不及走出去看看这个世界。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">还来不及向父母报恩,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">还来不及和朋友们畅饮个痛快,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">还来不及说一声“我爱你 ”。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">很多个来不及。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我一直都知道,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">活着真好。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">所以一直都在爱自己,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">虽然曾经对不起过自己。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">对不起自己,把别人看得比自己还要重。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">对不起,让自己在无数个夜里掉过的眼泪。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">对不起,让心房痛过、碎过。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">我真的知错了。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">请允许我改过自新,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">请给我弥补的机会。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">不管晴天、雨天,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">不管是艳阳还是细雨纷飞,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">不管是一个人流汗还是一个人撑伞,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">一个人有一个人的艺术。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">累了就停下脚步歇息,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">哭够了就擦干眼泪,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">然后昂首前进。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">自己走自己的路。</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">自己选择的路,</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; line-height: normal; ">就算跪着也要走完。</div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">曾經牢牢抓住不肯放手的東西,</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">到頭來,不過是大夢一場,夢醒了,就會從指縫間溜走;</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">我們放不下的,卻是夢裡的纏綿。</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">我們追逐的,明明是會幻滅的東西,我們卻貪戀著那絢爛的煙火。</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">當這具肉身衰朽,下一世的輪迴裡,我們是不是再也不相見了?</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">是這樣的難捨使我們流著淚不願放手。</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">身在紅塵,也就有執著。</span></div><div><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">然而,</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">當你了解人生,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">你幾乎沒有不快樂的理由,你卻也沒有特別興奮的理</span><wbr style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "><span class="word_break" style="display: inline-block; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); "></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">由。</span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">人生不过如此,大家都是这样走过来的。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">现在的生活很好,珍惜着每一个当下。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">谢谢EU的coursemates,谢谢你们把我融入你们的生活里,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">虽然你们知道我不属于你们。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">虽然我们没有很熟,但很谢谢你们把我放在心上。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">谢谢Elizabeth送给我的凯蒂,我只是讲过一次,谢谢你在澳门时特地去找然后送给我,我真的很吓到。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">谢谢April知道我喜欢RT的蛋糕后买给我。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">谢谢Alex,Carleen& Yoges.</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">有一班很好的coursemates,夫复何求。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">不为名利,不为什么,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">就那么单纯的真心。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">我一直都在牵挂着我大一和大二的coursemates.</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">他们一直都在我心里。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">忘不了的sing k session,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">忘不了的 Shogun buffet,</span></span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了</span><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">的KLCC喷水池,</span></span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了的替我庆生的one day trip,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了一起品尝幸福的味道,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了的旺角茶餐厅,那本menu到现在还在我的橱里,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了的group presentation,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了要考试前的group study,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了在Cindy家的steamboat,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了上课时总是坐在一起的倩影。</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">还有很多很多的</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">忘不了。</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">可是,</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">是不是距离拉远了彼此?</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">抑或是过去就让它过去?</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">几个月不聊天,几个月不知道彼此的近况。</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">这种感觉太难受了。</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; ">每一次的主动换来每一次的心碎。</span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">然而不主动就真的好像断了联系。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">是我太执着麽?</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">或许吧!</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">人生道路上不能强迫别人与你同行,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">我明白。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">身在澳洲的你,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">很谢谢我们依然keep in touch。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">虽然我每一次都叫你不要打电话给我,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">但其实每一次我接到你的电话都很窝心。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">等你settle好所有的事情,再来一次skype个够,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">真的不想你浪费钱。</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">Maggie Ong,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">人生有你,真好 =)</span></span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-86562915191194823472012-03-01T23:34:00.002+08:002012-03-01T23:38:18.123+08:00小小的梦想 ♥<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2CM3h6EcDD5BL6Wip132206k1ZvCvq0WJpwECoFZnAcbDvIRe0a-a_j6Bq8I1Noq_DeU-Rn9dtJBE6_L2xj5xWnfADsNKlEZITtCIBYjjDOm4ep78FKN7XWMZZ4Lzw9tN22zSdqjZ4eyV/s1600/33.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 162px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2CM3h6EcDD5BL6Wip132206k1ZvCvq0WJpwECoFZnAcbDvIRe0a-a_j6Bq8I1Noq_DeU-Rn9dtJBE6_L2xj5xWnfADsNKlEZITtCIBYjjDOm4ep78FKN7XWMZZ4Lzw9tN22zSdqjZ4eyV/s320/33.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5714953311439143762" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 100%; ">品冠:“为你我想做更好的人,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;">你完整了我的灵魂;</div><div style="text-align: center;">你是我心中最好的人;</div><div style="text-align: center;">我知道你懂,</div><div style="text-align: center;">在困难的背后,</div><div style="text-align: center;">还有一万种坚持下去的理由。”</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">几米:“我有一个小小的梦想,</div><div style="text-align: center;">那就是,生命里永远有你。”</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-66170566327929489062012-02-25T22:16:00.003+08:002012-02-25T23:58:05.220+08:00一个人的艺术<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2QWdh359c50ggiB5CDUxgEcbSksXbMRkmCElFEwXtAJiDntR-mj-e3Vv0LXLW_K2BT22BqYtTPudttyFoIFjyoej2Jv3zNW8lS6HH0kOn6wl3uuahZ37U9mfP1JUZhNmcMbSqzBQra8BI/s1600/122.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 218px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2QWdh359c50ggiB5CDUxgEcbSksXbMRkmCElFEwXtAJiDntR-mj-e3Vv0LXLW_K2BT22BqYtTPudttyFoIFjyoej2Jv3zNW8lS6HH0kOn6wl3uuahZ37U9mfP1JUZhNmcMbSqzBQra8BI/s320/122.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5713103129633990082" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNgDD5vNURHrL2453YDMVQ4G0G4blxDXehQSXr-4rG7u-zqxstgxk2X-cQlIUx8BzfyAKpY8DGI32mJbZ2UBHQ6Oo78o0UR94qx9uOynvYrUpKTrekZWF63wsvwRNK2cX4rpG5IjA9dhh1/s1600/121.jpg" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNgDD5vNURHrL2453YDMVQ4G0G4blxDXehQSXr-4rG7u-zqxstgxk2X-cQlIUx8BzfyAKpY8DGI32mJbZ2UBHQ6Oo78o0UR94qx9uOynvYrUpKTrekZWF63wsvwRNK2cX4rpG5IjA9dhh1/s320/121.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5713077511223720802" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><span>从一位学姐那边看到</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>“总是被遗落</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>因而学会了</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>一个人的生活</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>是种艺术”</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>我对这句话的印象很深很深.<br />皆因很贴切我的心情.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>我,总是容易被人忽视、</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>被人遗忘</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>或许我不值得吧 </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>谢谢被遗落</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>才学会好好跟自己相处</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>但愿你们一切安好</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span>平安顺利</span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-52879955846401324382012-01-19T22:55:00.006+08:002012-01-19T23:38:21.624+08:00憧憬 · 未来<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHsR-uu6tYV1ruINLfLPWwuhcTd9E-NEJzypIBdO__1wByuWNFs_pev-qguDqG-g8BsYu-WE4r8NWJ42dcikH1q4xZVvl43NrjaYWwiTci90uKf33PLLQtyNiLkOmxK7rBTSscM1uhfOuq/s1600/strengthened+by+past.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHsR-uu6tYV1ruINLfLPWwuhcTd9E-NEJzypIBdO__1wByuWNFs_pev-qguDqG-g8BsYu-WE4r8NWJ42dcikH1q4xZVvl43NrjaYWwiTci90uKf33PLLQtyNiLkOmxK7rBTSscM1uhfOuq/s320/strengthened+by+past.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5699360223467179650" /></a><span><br />五味杂陈的心情。</span><div><span>现在,此刻。</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>很想像小女孩那样闹情绪,</span></div><div><span>但是我不能,</span></div><div><span>因为我不再是小女孩。</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>每天的生活犹如行尸走肉,</span></div><div><span>除了无奈,还是无奈。</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>生活当中充斥着矛盾,</span></div><div><span>而我,每一天都徘徊在矛盾之间。</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>我,有一年的假期。</span></div><div><span>一年。一年...</span></div><div><span>不要羡慕我,我有我的苦衷。</span></div><div><span>每一个人都必须为自己的错误负责任,</span></div><div><span>一年的假期,是昨日的惩罚。</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>所谓矛盾,</span></div><div><span>是我不懂得如何去诠释这一年的假期对我来说到底是好是坏。</span></div><div><span>得与失,各为半。</span></div><div><span>当初信誓旦旦给自己立下的目标,</span></div><div><span>还在咫尺之外。</span></div><div><span>我很懒惰,真的很懒。</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>看着身边的人,</span></div><div><span>每一个都很优秀,</span></div><div><span>相比之下,我确实很渺小。</span></div><div><span>渺小得不知该如何去形容。</span></div><div><span>看着他们,我真的很自卑。</span></div><div><span>我真的不够努力。</span></div><div><span>就算努力了,我会和他们一样吗?</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>会不会有一天,</span></div><div><span>我爸爸会拍拍我的肩膀告诉我,</span></div><div><span>“读不下去了没关系,回来就好。”</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>当我还是小女孩的时候,</span></div><div><span>我觉得出国留学是一件遥不可及的梦想。</span></div><div><span>中学毕业以后,我曾一度觉得前路茫茫。</span></div><div><span>由于对自己的不信任,我放弃了从小到大坚持的梦想。</span></div><div><span>庆幸的是妈妈太了解我了,让我最终选择了那个从小到大秉持着的信念,</span></div><div><span>念了自己喜欢的科系。</span></div><div><span>只是,我承认,我不是优秀的 =(</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>人生是拼图,</span></div><div><span>一块一块地拼凑着。</span></div><div><span>不需要言语解释的。</span></div><div><span>你会明白。</span></div><div><span>拼图,</span></div><div><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', Times, serif; line-height: 22px; text-align: -webkit-auto; "><span>总是似有似无地隐藏着很多意义。</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; ">这是一段成长的路,一点一滴拼凑着最美丽的拼图。</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; ">天使对我说,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; ">要认真学习。</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; ">魔鬼却说,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; ">放弃吧!不要让自己那么难受。</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">天使和魔鬼,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">到底谁是谁非?</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">我恐模糊了眼睛。</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; "><b>没有一颗心,</b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; "><b>会因为追逐梦想而受伤。</b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px; "><b><br /></b></span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">加油,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">为了我的梦想。</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">为了我在心里默默地对自己许诺过,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">我要穿着那一身黑色的毕业袍对你说,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;">“谢谢你让我觉得,念法律是一件很热血的事!”</span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span><span style="line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><br /></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-82166519581989063732011-11-19T21:26:00.002+08:002011-11-19T21:31:10.383+08:00那些年<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFUx6YaewOgYjkoePdVC3XeU7jg2eKkgXxJKrOr_JvTN6hUfv_ADHdcJvPtcBnQGT5o-zYOmiZSo8k4lTr5PyTLXf7-hE9ig8kYsCnK_BR28aUjbv-VmQws-4CAZPDVL5PixinX6xoC_ZP/s1600/kt%2526jy.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFUx6YaewOgYjkoePdVC3XeU7jg2eKkgXxJKrOr_JvTN6hUfv_ADHdcJvPtcBnQGT5o-zYOmiZSo8k4lTr5PyTLXf7-hE9ig8kYsCnK_BR28aUjbv-VmQws-4CAZPDVL5PixinX6xoC_ZP/s320/kt%2526jy.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5676697958517286706" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">如果你说:</div><div style="text-align: center;">“谢谢你喜欢我”</div><div style="text-align: center;">我一定会这么回答:</div><div style="text-align: center;">“我也喜欢当年</div><div style="text-align: center;">喜欢着你的我”</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">虽然你不再是我眼里的一颗苹果,</div><div style="text-align: center;">但衷心祝福你幸福快乐 =)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">啊啊,</div><div style="text-align: center;">你快点结婚啦,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我好想在红包上写着</div><div style="text-align: center;">“新婚快乐,我的青春”</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-63561470290935285982011-11-10T18:26:00.002+08:002011-11-10T18:32:57.329+08:00不习惯<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjp-HbWDLcKFq44HK69Lx10aegZE5SlHPhFTEvJVQ735hQnuMh2_Hb-BO5YP6sMZ3YGQasRarNOHcpM59Qzl6wFbxLPY1TkrDZBF8q7muZW_BiIDQnGmER7CZOtTN0y2GnEjuVOcGWFTIeG/s1600/alone.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 319px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjp-HbWDLcKFq44HK69Lx10aegZE5SlHPhFTEvJVQ735hQnuMh2_Hb-BO5YP6sMZ3YGQasRarNOHcpM59Qzl6wFbxLPY1TkrDZBF8q7muZW_BiIDQnGmER7CZOtTN0y2GnEjuVOcGWFTIeG/s320/alone.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5673311775941308258" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯我们要隔着半个地球</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯有8个小时的时差隔着我们</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯再也收不到你们的简讯</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯再也没有机会一大班去吃东西了</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯上课时少了左手边的你</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯再也听不到你的近况了</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯总是听到你说在忙</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯没有一起品尝幸福的味道了</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯没有一大班总是爱拍照的倩影了</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯不在一起讨论功课了</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯没有机会讨论等一下要不要逃课了</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯没能讨论谁谁谁的孩子要叫什么名字</div><div style="text-align: center;">不习惯没有了大家</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">我,只是不习惯而已</div><div style="text-align: center;">我,会慢慢习惯的</div><div style="text-align: center;">我,会加油的</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-29039929614186992842011-10-03T10:03:00.002+08:002011-10-03T10:07:13.613+08:00=(<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfjgKp7WB2-EIB6w57MQXJrKjmAu7Iu2CctDrO78u37eTPpgvEZ3eowC9gBD8cfgpt1n_Eali4G89hxddAKOnKJfSPRu66JgOGX9udM13beB6VQqJabj_uYkY0lci3d4UYb9LFqMmYejUB/s1600/haiz.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 217px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfjgKp7WB2-EIB6w57MQXJrKjmAu7Iu2CctDrO78u37eTPpgvEZ3eowC9gBD8cfgpt1n_Eali4G89hxddAKOnKJfSPRu66JgOGX9udM13beB6VQqJabj_uYkY0lci3d4UYb9LFqMmYejUB/s320/haiz.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659080891502469250" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">在自身没有条件与资格时,</div><div style="text-align: center;">不要轻易说爱.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">不然最后只会剩下</div><div style="text-align: center;">遍体鳞伤及伤痕累累的自己 =(</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-58612643963004278482011-09-29T18:34:00.008+08:002011-09-29T20:42:02.507+08:00九月杂锦<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_XvwqLlRfbtke_3ytuS9LLsbBwHBLJxs5DgQ0sKxF2-vlow1_7oFy_VBxxhDvjAkhbD5krb1IypBQiNUgK47PJ6W4_hG5SEfapJmGEzD7Ugvb8rhRu_SsNFtrowy6WHtLXWvYMYH3WvKD/s1600/P1000779.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_XvwqLlRfbtke_3ytuS9LLsbBwHBLJxs5DgQ0sKxF2-vlow1_7oFy_VBxxhDvjAkhbD5krb1IypBQiNUgK47PJ6W4_hG5SEfapJmGEzD7Ugvb8rhRu_SsNFtrowy6WHtLXWvYMYH3WvKD/s320/P1000779.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657735658972623730" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">八月尾去了台湾.</div><div style="text-align: center;">台湾回来以后,诸事不顺!</div><div style="text-align: center;">严格上来说,不是台湾回来后,</div><div style="text-align: center;">是拿了大二成绩以后.</div><div style="text-align: center;">拿了成绩,</div><div style="text-align: center;">就开始忙申请大学的事情。</div><div style="text-align: center;">说到这,也是有一段长篇故事.</div><div style="text-align: center;">一开始,大家都说好的Cardiff,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我却为了IELTS而和大家背道而驰。</div><div style="text-align: center;">然后,就在烦到底去那间。</div><div style="text-align: center;">毕竟2+1的选择,</div><div style="text-align: center;">也仅限于college的partnership university.</div><div style="text-align: center;">最后筛选出两间-</div><div style="text-align: center;">Aberystwyth University 和</div><div style="text-align: center;">University of West of England.</div><div style="text-align: center;">由于通过UCAS申请,</div><div style="text-align: center;">原本简单的东西复杂化了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">一开始不选Aber的原因:</div><div style="text-align: center;">1) 要拿 7/8 科</div><div style="text-align: center;">2) 大二的成绩被纳入考量大三的学分</div><div style="text-align: center;">而这一切,都必须在大二的考试前作决定。</div><div style="text-align: center;">在很突然的情况下,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我按了UWE成为我的firm choice.</div><div style="text-align: center;">而Aber很自然地成为我的insurance choice.</div><div style="text-align: center;">过后才发现,</div><div style="text-align: center;">这是我一辈子做过最错的决定!</div><div style="text-align: center;">当我拿了成绩以后,也决定要去Aber了,</div><div style="text-align: center;">噩梦就开始了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">打了很多通电话去英国,</div><div style="text-align: center;">担心了很久,</div><div style="text-align: center;">很不要脸地去求UWE release掉我,</div><div style="text-align: center;">终于,</div><div style="text-align: center;">三个星期多过去了,</div><div style="text-align: center;">算是好消息吧,我终于被release了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">但是,我以为的好消息终究是一场无从躲避的噩耗!</div><div style="text-align: center;">我被安排进入一个叫clearing的系统。</div><div style="text-align: center;">重点是,Aber不接受clearing里的学生,因为名额满了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">但我没放弃,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我一直发电邮、一直求他们。</div><div style="text-align: center;">college的Mr.William也一直打电话过去,还赌了一把。</div><div style="text-align: center;">agent也一直不断发电邮。</div><div style="text-align: center;">我的阿姨也帮忙打给Aber。</div><div style="text-align: center;">结果,徒劳无功。</div><div style="text-align: center;">我能做的,做了,尽力了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">一直被骂、一直被骂。</div><div style="text-align: center;">一直哭、一直哭。</div><div style="text-align: center;">哭到打电话给朋友的声音还是哽咽的 =(</div><div style="text-align: center;">就这样度过了20年来最伤心的生日。</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">低潮了一小段的日子,</div><div style="text-align: center;">明白了再多的伤心对事情根本起不了什么作用。</div><div style="text-align: center;">想开了,</div><div style="text-align: center;">就振作了 =)</div><div style="text-align: center;">开始找工作。</div><div style="text-align: center;">很庆幸的,</div><div style="text-align: center;">很快就找到了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">谢谢做我耳朵的美琪。</div><div style="text-align: center;">谢谢帮了我很多很多、</div><div style="text-align: center;">把运气送了给我、</div><div style="text-align: center;">没有了你我不知道该怎么办的丽宇,</div><div style="text-align: center;">谢谢一直都无条件帮我的贵程,</div><div style="text-align: center;">还有谢谢很多传简讯问候我、</div><div style="text-align: center;">facebook留言给我、</div><div style="text-align: center;">谢谢很多很多个你 =)</div><div style="text-align: center;">很坦白地说,</div><div style="text-align: center;">你们的小小问候和祝福,</div><div style="text-align: center;">真的让我的心温暖很久很久 <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">♥</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">回顾去年4月,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我们从陌生人,</div><div style="text-align: center;">因为Manchester City Council,</div><div style="text-align: center;">走进了彼此的生活。</div><div style="text-align: center;">开始了放学后去看戏+唱k+吃buffet.</div><div style="text-align: center;">也开始了一起读书的生涯。</div><div style="text-align: center;">也开始了习惯有大家的生活。</div><div style="text-align: center;">虽然间中有过不开心的事情,</div><div style="text-align: center;">但是真挚的友谊是有股莫名的力量把大家联系在一起。</div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQYGln2AxEWS0s0IDKKbS92W32g14kONWvpDtGeZHEbqROEBim3fJmSGKvtuTDlxZl11sma4RLIa9decQMbWfzJh1gpkanNKuRTcXRCTDJYQsYtcbkKFt2GmmiQs04Po3EHiJjfB8KQbs5/s1600/BACians.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQYGln2AxEWS0s0IDKKbS92W32g14kONWvpDtGeZHEbqROEBim3fJmSGKvtuTDlxZl11sma4RLIa9decQMbWfzJh1gpkanNKuRTcXRCTDJYQsYtcbkKFt2GmmiQs04Po3EHiJjfB8KQbs5/s320/BACians.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657734282127984402" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">我爱大家!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">♥</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;"><br /></span></span></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiTErBBkGTXcXOmT1K0W13nxryaSxZmzzRVZzpDc8MJDcPcKLybd0XNrKJnyfbz5wG8nqHi0sxZ6312RJkOGIzd9bHkwfSfuoSrcHt5GZ-26Uj8ytK4Njfms3HBneDuWm1Up9peeWxC2vL/s1600/P1000906.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiTErBBkGTXcXOmT1K0W13nxryaSxZmzzRVZzpDc8MJDcPcKLybd0XNrKJnyfbz5wG8nqHi0sxZ6312RJkOGIzd9bHkwfSfuoSrcHt5GZ-26Uj8ytK4Njfms3HBneDuWm1Up9peeWxC2vL/s320/P1000906.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657734278658391586" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">不要哭 =/</div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgm2A3syui_3NlGxATjTuqHurgyebma6q5us3sF3SS-tURsrWetRNww6IOn4wPzcsj40YqD-eKbgcZGoJSO5Hvfl4UZvh92bEvbnNesyAxlbCVQ1peXi-MAWO8p_yfJkcxC-_51jobfWA0g/s1600/P1000852.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgm2A3syui_3NlGxATjTuqHurgyebma6q5us3sF3SS-tURsrWetRNww6IOn4wPzcsj40YqD-eKbgcZGoJSO5Hvfl4UZvh92bEvbnNesyAxlbCVQ1peXi-MAWO8p_yfJkcxC-_51jobfWA0g/s320/P1000852.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657734264268951442" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Sally+ahYin+KC+Derek </div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-DLrsfZRNE4nZjgqzs6fHW2qeUhQiz2i9Bj7dGY42Az9ih42k7fJC57mCXcwqvxjwQwh0s3FuhAp5xMlXQA9eGHzsQZW6Nt8MwRvkBD68pnZdooax7ZQM2uuZeb0nWPJ_rEsaewQ4szS0/s1600/P1000856.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-DLrsfZRNE4nZjgqzs6fHW2qeUhQiz2i9Bj7dGY42Az9ih42k7fJC57mCXcwqvxjwQwh0s3FuhAp5xMlXQA9eGHzsQZW6Nt8MwRvkBD68pnZdooax7ZQM2uuZeb0nWPJ_rEsaewQ4szS0/s320/P1000856.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657734255515593714" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Bla+ahYin+Sally+Cindy+KC</div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgx5Q34PIJICcrMCQF7s-RFXGwjKW9MRY5MJ0AD44I_PDwbaehjhfNTYDxVRF18LIpelI7cMt1YQ8JEBopKKOKR6GJwb1gsFpH9db6iT0aT049jdiQ6pb4q430O7Z4Qr8RxwFjr09Tk9Ati/s1600/P1000904.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgx5Q34PIJICcrMCQF7s-RFXGwjKW9MRY5MJ0AD44I_PDwbaehjhfNTYDxVRF18LIpelI7cMt1YQ8JEBopKKOKR6GJwb1gsFpH9db6iT0aT049jdiQ6pb4q430O7Z4Qr8RxwFjr09Tk9Ati/s320/P1000904.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657734252924576370" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">all da best guys&girls <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">♥</span> </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2kGsV_V5CzwvpGQ7dkgjuCOCDduhyzoFkJ0MnLluFTt-7u2gj3OTl8w7na2Krk8D0lY1tFSu9KOQO3T7wBBq8CClejDbJo0FhT7RvpsR-r0xL4hts5euiGJ83KtdDqh-7OEpSbvZML5qK/s1600/P1000867.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2kGsV_V5CzwvpGQ7dkgjuCOCDduhyzoFkJ0MnLluFTt-7u2gj3OTl8w7na2Krk8D0lY1tFSu9KOQO3T7wBBq8CClejDbJo0FhT7RvpsR-r0xL4hts5euiGJ83KtdDqh-7OEpSbvZML5qK/s320/P1000867.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657729396216038658" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">很好很好很好人的学长姐 <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); ">♥</span></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjD5hTMlKJbvbujQoZafKW7i6v8Ux6-Baqyf8wMSWb7xsmgtsPLTaeIUer1rdrQjNTvRX9VuxZ4L2d7AZHw2Ztqd4cSDpxQZhIxYd55OV6xZ4MrHhFhI8JdWLttVJZSsn_iyFWHxX3BabZ/s1600/P1000869.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjD5hTMlKJbvbujQoZafKW7i6v8Ux6-Baqyf8wMSWb7xsmgtsPLTaeIUer1rdrQjNTvRX9VuxZ4L2d7AZHw2Ztqd4cSDpxQZhIxYd55OV6xZ4MrHhFhI8JdWLttVJZSsn_iyFWHxX3BabZ/s320/P1000869.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657729388611947074" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">祝大家前程似锦!! =)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM05MJBiBIPTmvCLooyagaJEQ17-6q2FF9dFWZSYks6UMa5ziXqtw-x868Qhqe4bvcNEaCSP0x6SPTAVEnXK_vblhqCpin5FKeWBLJ88xsoAQYBjQmk-hyaS5jp6jNJbp7aomPX_IAWd7e/s1600/you+are+the+apples+of+my+eyes.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 278px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhM05MJBiBIPTmvCLooyagaJEQ17-6q2FF9dFWZSYks6UMa5ziXqtw-x868Qhqe4bvcNEaCSP0x6SPTAVEnXK_vblhqCpin5FKeWBLJ88xsoAQYBjQmk-hyaS5jp6jNJbp7aomPX_IAWd7e/s320/you+are+the+apples+of+my+eyes.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5657729378182047922" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">《那些年,我们一起追的女孩》</div><div style="text-align: center;">最近很热。</div><div style="text-align: center;">但,我看这本书时,</div><div style="text-align: center;">是高三刚结束时。</div><div style="text-align: center;">当时没有很多的冲动,</div><div style="text-align: center;">买了,就搁置在书架上。</div><div style="text-align: center;">到了去年六月旬吧,</div><div style="text-align: center;">忘了是什么原因让我有股冲动想把它看完。</div><div style="text-align: center;">可能真的是太多太多人介绍了吧。</div><div style="text-align: center;">有名人介绍啊、身边的朋友介绍啊...</div><div style="text-align: center;">就这样,开始走进了九把刀的世界。</div><div style="text-align: center;">真的,一开始看了就不能自拔。</div><div style="text-align: center;">我承认我看到哭。</div><div style="text-align: center;">这本书,我一共买了两本。</div><div style="text-align: center;">一本是高三那时候买的。</div><div style="text-align: center;">另一本是在台湾时买的。</div><div style="text-align: center;">里边还有九把刀为他的女神所作的歌。</div><div style="text-align: center;">很动听。</div><div style="text-align: center;">不为什么,只因为九把刀的真诚。</div><div style="text-align: center;">还有的就是,</div><div style="text-align: center;">这本书会令人不自觉地回想起大家的青春。</div><div style="text-align: center;">极力推荐的一本好书!</div><div style="text-align: center;">“<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(1, 1, 1); font-family: 新細明體; line-height: 27px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: none; background-color: rgb(195, 207, 155); ">是妳的幸福,為我們的青春找到最好的註解。”</span></div><div style="text-align: center;">最后的就是,</div><div style="text-align: center;">看完了这本书,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我有了投稿的冲动,</div><div style="text-align: center;">学他,把自己的青春通过文字表达出来。</div><div style="text-align: center;">很庆幸的,</div><div style="text-align: center;">最后还是刊登了 =)</div><div style="text-align: center;">比较意外的是,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我从没向任何一个人透露过我的笔名+文章的题目。</div><div style="text-align: center;">我依然很记得,</div><div style="text-align: center;">在那个午后,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我刚上完课。</div><div style="text-align: center;">我收到了几个不同人发过来的短讯。</div><div style="text-align: center;">内容都不异而同地问了我同样的问题。</div><div style="text-align: center;">他们说,“你的笔名是不是XXX</div><div style="text-align: center;">你的文章是不是XXX</div><div style="text-align: center;">我一看就有种感觉是你写的,</div><div style="text-align: center;">到底是你吗?”</div><div style="text-align: center;">很开心,</div><div style="text-align: center;">真的,</div><div style="text-align: center;">刊登的那一刻,</div><div style="text-align: center;">很开心。</div><div style="text-align: center;">只是有点遗憾的是,</div><div style="text-align: center;">九把刀到目前为止跟他的女神沈佳宜是一对很好的朋友,</div><div style="text-align: center;">至少是可以一直做朋友,做到大家闭上眼睛的那一刻。</div><div style="text-align: center;">而我呢?什么都不是。</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">I promised myself,</div><div style="text-align: center;">this gap of year would be a fruitful year =)</div><div style="text-align: center;">现在的生活重心,</div><div style="text-align: center;">就是把工做好,</div><div style="text-align: center;">把书念好!</div><div style="text-align: center;">加油加油加油 =)</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-11512242008512257662011-08-04T01:01:00.005+08:002011-08-04T10:32:08.151+08:00杂记 2<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcpO2MZAiMf4z8GeEL336oURPkhwcHDUjKRHA-T9QrdALrUY1Iig6nRMFLEWt3gICDkFNGV8m3GbAj4_XlMXgSdh4xl4FhYGWfmTELWxQgJH8lDPwZdD2JlXaoOXzEpyyqJiIbp7Gl1x3Q/s1600/199991_191900800849190_107827552589849_445985_7961234_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 238px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcpO2MZAiMf4z8GeEL336oURPkhwcHDUjKRHA-T9QrdALrUY1Iig6nRMFLEWt3gICDkFNGV8m3GbAj4_XlMXgSdh4xl4FhYGWfmTELWxQgJH8lDPwZdD2JlXaoOXzEpyyqJiIbp7Gl1x3Q/s320/199991_191900800849190_107827552589849_445985_7961234_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5636676047156457138" /></a><br />我的大二正式结束了。<div>用了7个月的时间,</div><div>真的是来匆匆,去匆匆。</div><div>等成绩的那段日子最难熬了。</div><div>我担心到荷尔蒙都失调了 =/</div><div>庆幸都过去了,</div><div>这个月就好好充电,</div><div>大三加油 =)</div><div><br /></div><div>下星期的钢琴考试,</div><div>我还没准备好 =(</div><div><br /></div><div>过去的事情,</div><div>我只想找件物品去凭弔。</div><div>因为曾经发生过的事情,</div><div>是不可能在我的生命里磨灭的。</div><div>每一个过去代表着每一个阶段的我。</div><div>现在的成长,是每一个过去的结合。</div><div>所以,衷心祝福你幸福快乐 =)</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">五味杂陈的心情,</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">该向谁述说呢?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span">也许就连自己也都搞不懂。</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">到底有没有前世今生?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">我是不是几千年前你放生的白狐?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">是不是你收<wbr>留過的一隻奄奄一息的小翠鳥?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">今生短暫的相聚,原是為了報前世的<wbr>恩。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">這一生,我們總是一再問自己,底有沒有輪迴?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">是有輪迴的好,還是沒有的好?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">是不生不滅的好,還<wbr>是只有一次訣別的好?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; ">畢竟,離別太累人了</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; ">。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">多少生死相許,後來各散東西?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">「問世間情是何物」後面可能是問號<wbr>,也可能是感嘆號;</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">可以是一句調皮的情話,也可以是形單影隻長歌<wbr>當哭。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">我們到底把愛情談成了什麼符號?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">萬轉千回,愛過就明白,情<wbr>是什麼?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">千古一問,終歸是不懂。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">昨天面子书的status :</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">[There's always someone who will shine whenever the darkness surrounds you. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 12px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">The shine is the hope that humanity still exists in mankind =)]</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">只想说声谢谢!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">我不知道为什么看似那么平凡的动作,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">会在我心里久久不能平复?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">我反复问了自己,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">却得不到一个解答。</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">Lai Yee说可能是因为我最近遇到很多坏人,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">哈哈!</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">但究竟是为了什么?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;">百思不得其解 ><</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 12px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 15px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">I believe that everything is gonna be alright in the end,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span"> if it is not alright, then it's not the end.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">the most romantic story isn't Romeo&Julia who died together,</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">but is grandpa&grandma who grew old together =)</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">Love isn't finding someone you can live with.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 15px; "><span class="Apple-style-span">But it's finding someone you can't live without.♥</span></span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-65813436426553961222011-06-29T17:41:00.003+08:002011-06-29T17:54:07.253+08:0029.6.11<div style="text-align: center;">唉.</div><div style="text-align: center;">通常我update blog都不会有好事发生的 ><</div><div style="text-align: center;">说实在,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我真的很讨厌很讨厌作选择.</div><div style="text-align: center;">明天就是6月30号 了,</div><div style="text-align: center;">该决定的都要决定了.<br />因为IELTS,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我放弃了卡迪夫.</div><div style="text-align: center;">心有痛,</div><div style="text-align: center;">更痛的是因为我的懦弱.</div><div style="text-align: center;">为什么我是被问题克服而不是去克服问题的人?</div><div style="text-align: center;">我很气自己.</div><div style="text-align: center;">谁喜欢在异地一个人生活?</div><div style="text-align: center;">谁愿意离开一群熟悉且已建立了深厚感情的朋友?</div><div style="text-align: center;">谁愿意又重新适应环境?</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">唉.</div><div style="text-align: center;">天下无不散之筵席.</div><div style="text-align: center;">再见!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">繁忙+烦嚣的生活里,</div><div style="text-align: center;">捎来的好消息 =D</div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgAtkAX4pUmBBzKNK793L-WTbnRDDtWy2y16gwXQ7erLSTn4ig0OdY3xbYzPO7SdMxjElHLUTUWiYlcsMx1T5O77LYH1pQZIR3q1ZzZYu58Lvq3TNYJrILU-5XWaXonnXgGACod7ICvIH8/s1600/P1000338.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgAtkAX4pUmBBzKNK793L-WTbnRDDtWy2y16gwXQ7erLSTn4ig0OdY3xbYzPO7SdMxjElHLUTUWiYlcsMx1T5O77LYH1pQZIR3q1ZzZYu58Lvq3TNYJrILU-5XWaXonnXgGACod7ICvIH8/s320/P1000338.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5623575190282430658" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">虽然稿费不多,</div><div style="text-align: center;">但它的刊登,</div><div style="text-align: center;">对我意义非凡 =)</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-16664715084746173942011-06-08T01:43:00.003+08:002011-06-08T02:20:15.222+08:008.6.11<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUXNA5gaThUfoxNzgF2S_J6jtkGyTuSVdTbWeD7zA-uTl3Gwd9Ht5J-QnlhuoRScvRKlfxymVHf5Hg_JCHawpyPrmZNgfMybV7WDlzkiRDSUcFgRzW3Hgj3RCUCT7yGkax_0aMP7oa3FiD/s1600/%25E6%259C%2589%25E4%25B8%2580%25E5%25A4%25A9%25EF%25BC%258C%25E5%258F%258B%25E6%2583%2585%25E5%2592%258C%25E7%2588%25B1%25E6%2583%2585%25E7%25A2%25B0%25E8%25A7%2581%25E4%25BA%2586%25E3%2580%2582.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 239px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUXNA5gaThUfoxNzgF2S_J6jtkGyTuSVdTbWeD7zA-uTl3Gwd9Ht5J-QnlhuoRScvRKlfxymVHf5Hg_JCHawpyPrmZNgfMybV7WDlzkiRDSUcFgRzW3Hgj3RCUCT7yGkax_0aMP7oa3FiD/s320/%25E6%259C%2589%25E4%25B8%2580%25E5%25A4%25A9%25EF%25BC%258C%25E5%258F%258B%25E6%2583%2585%25E5%2592%258C%25E7%2588%25B1%25E6%2583%2585%25E7%25A2%25B0%25E8%25A7%2581%25E4%25BA%2586%25E3%2580%2582.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5615535681869531314" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">是不是人长大了</div><div style="text-align: center;">就会有很多的牵挂、烦恼</div><div style="text-align: center;">还有别离</div><div style="text-align: center;">有些事对你来说或许是小事</div><div style="text-align: center;">而我却久久不能释怀</div><div style="text-align: center;">我只能说</div><div style="text-align: center;">我不能阻止你讨厌我</div><div style="text-align: center;">但发言时请自重</div><div style="text-align: center;">谢谢</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">很多事情</div><div style="text-align: center;">因为曾经相信</div><div style="text-align: center;">所以伤感</div><div style="text-align: center;">小娴说:“</div><div style="text-align: center;">当你学会放弃,</div><div style="text-align: center;">你才可以承受一切的失望和谎言。”</div><div style="text-align: center;">很抱歉,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我们的友谊,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我放弃了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">同时地,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我爱不起不爱我的人。</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">发完牢骚,</div><div style="text-align: center;">该言归正传了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">托朋友的福,</div><div style="text-align: center;">千里迢迢从台湾带给我两本小娴的书。</div><div style="text-align: center;">不好意思,霸占了你行李的重量。</div><div style="text-align: center;">*万分感激*</div><div style="text-align: center;">用了四天的时间,</div><div style="text-align: center;">看完了。</div><div style="text-align: center;">满满的满足感 =)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">最近把心思花在写稿上。</div><div style="text-align: center;">因为我发现,</div><div style="text-align: center;">没有人会真正理解你的苦,</div><div style="text-align: center;">每个人都有自己的烦恼。</div><div style="text-align: center;">所以我选择写出来,</div><div style="text-align: center;">用另一个形式抒发。</div><div style="text-align: center;">最最起码,</div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >稿纸不会因为我烦而跑掉。</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >人大了,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >渐渐学会把秘密和想说的话藏在心底,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >守住自己的心事,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >不说与人听,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >就像一头动物,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >把一堆有用没用的东西统</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; font-size: medium; ">啣回去自己的洞穴藏起来,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; font-size: medium; ">然后很机警又孤独地在那个洞穴外面踱着步、</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">守着、徘徊着,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">不让任何人接近。</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">终有一天,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">累趴了 =(</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;">之前的那篇,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我真的很后悔没有收好来。</div><div style="text-align: center;">它不见了 =(</div><div style="text-align: center;">我只想让它成为完美的句点,</div><div style="text-align: center;">别无他意。</div><div style="text-align: center;">感激上天,</div><div style="text-align: center;">它到了最想要的地方。</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">美好的时光不再,</div><div style="text-align: center;">悲伤的时光也不会重来。</div><div style="text-align: center;">当下的悲喜终会飞逝,</div><div style="text-align: center;">时间对任何人都是公平的。</div><div style="text-align: center;">珍惜当下的相聚、相依与相爱,</div><div style="text-align: center;">惟有这一刻是真实的。</div><div style="text-align: center;">悲伤的时候,</div><div style="text-align: center;">告诉自己,</div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; font-size: medium; ">就連悲傷也是會過去的。</span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-35383119766305753142011-05-31T00:15:00.004+08:002011-05-31T00:25:53.715+08:00No Matter<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnjOBL2x0JB4E3zLf_Bq08tWzJ16HXSVi5z1_MD4N7hcYEK28f0qo77BZTagbsHd3sTkHoifPwd3MwNCfwYd8M3GvfTOsSrRQUav3oa4jQYh9gHEyohxEgLZbna5sNOE2gKfRmleFpYB5x/s1600/198563_190682340971036_107827552589849_438855_2417418_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 188px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnjOBL2x0JB4E3zLf_Bq08tWzJ16HXSVi5z1_MD4N7hcYEK28f0qo77BZTagbsHd3sTkHoifPwd3MwNCfwYd8M3GvfTOsSrRQUav3oa4jQYh9gHEyohxEgLZbna5sNOE2gKfRmleFpYB5x/s320/198563_190682340971036_107827552589849_438855_2417418_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5612543935968787714" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">Doesn't matter whom you are with</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">Doesn't matter where you are going</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">Don't you know I'm still waiting here</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">for you and pray for you</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">In the sunny days</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">sun will light your day</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">In the windy days</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">wind will lead your way</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">I have to say</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">you are my treasure moments</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">never gonna walk away</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">In the rainy days</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">rain will share my tears </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">In the stormy days</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">storms will steal my pain</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">just go your way</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">and leave things all behind</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">spread your wings and fly away</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">I'm pretending you are mine</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">and wishing you will be fine</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">the moments we share never die</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">You have made a difference to my life</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">and let me realize </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span">the feeling i got deep inside</span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-67156616876890305642011-05-30T00:50:00.001+08:002011-05-30T00:52:35.881+08:00♥<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFk287VKNOkEF4H1sIHukJGBi3gs_RyIdYGLeIJW262jnRBGgJDzNPgfW-Q8j3j_aMOGt_LfolGBOyXmM4dEZYT7sHAkVMl1tMOiSFJ905-4ZpFStK8775o96NAsjMdOyrNi3GZ_mVSO7U/s1600/190052_192285914144012_107827552589849_447779_6257151_n+%25281%2529.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 190px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFk287VKNOkEF4H1sIHukJGBi3gs_RyIdYGLeIJW262jnRBGgJDzNPgfW-Q8j3j_aMOGt_LfolGBOyXmM4dEZYT7sHAkVMl1tMOiSFJ905-4ZpFStK8775o96NAsjMdOyrNi3GZ_mVSO7U/s320/190052_192285914144012_107827552589849_447779_6257151_n+%25281%2529.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5612181498607728882" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" >I wanna remember<br />how u touch my heart </span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" >in a way that no one else could ♥</span></span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-41173037928800408222011-05-15T02:45:00.003+08:002011-05-15T02:58:17.129+08:0015-5-11<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBFwCNFQWApxyKsrJWpZkUXKoQZv8JVH7y07ziCrvCFxbObr-y2u1xco45kLrE-a0G1M5rK0D9t007neCz6yNv0LxzFxqoZWmJnE3xaPfneXb0fpDRJ6kRfQVdbc59s9dNDMD11XkqtOQJ/s1600/215980_205706532787369_184927488198607_715785_4836610_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBFwCNFQWApxyKsrJWpZkUXKoQZv8JVH7y07ziCrvCFxbObr-y2u1xco45kLrE-a0G1M5rK0D9t007neCz6yNv0LxzFxqoZWmJnE3xaPfneXb0fpDRJ6kRfQVdbc59s9dNDMD11XkqtOQJ/s320/215980_205706532787369_184927488198607_715785_4836610_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5606644939975149714" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">刚从老婆的birthday celebration回来.</div><div style="text-align: center;">出席者:主角Maggie,ahYin,Elaine,</div><div style="text-align: center;">Yvonne,Bear,Hoe,</div><div style="text-align: center;">ShinYee+LiHwei.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">还是喜欢跟你们一起.</div><div style="text-align: center;">喜欢我们的谈话、</div><div style="text-align: center;">喜欢我们的烂gat、</div><div style="text-align: center;">喜欢我们开的玩笑、</div><div style="text-align: center;">喜欢我们的相处方式 =)</div><div style="text-align: center;">感谢有你们这班好朋友,</div><div style="text-align: center;">珍惜着我们的友谊 =D</div><div style="text-align: center;">不管日子过了多久,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我们还是一样要那么好谈!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">老婆,生日快乐 <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; ">♥</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >要永远开开心心啊!</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >爱你!</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >p/s:很鬼喜欢依雯送你的礼物 =P</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >---------------------</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >被自己喜欢的人伤害抑或讨厌,</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >那会比任何一个人拿着把利刀直插入你的心脏来得伤.</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >伤我最深的人,</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >还在我面前说别太残忍.</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >上天让我们遇见,</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >为何要让无知的人为抹杀掉珍贵的缘分?</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-5666503905457822011-05-14T00:53:00.003+08:002011-05-14T01:10:29.103+08:00STLY<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3T4F6TYl6_XyZw8oO9TofV80vAp4jGDyXSRehxjCCPQN41tgWnrszumxZh768ncaLkvJisMTYXRUXR1blOGRyo8ZRjd9MaBD224DmDGNz1iYE7-c7SzmN79utVGtNePXjz97up7rKNLbV/s1600/225097_184235221625855_184225858293458_466035_431639_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 206px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3T4F6TYl6_XyZw8oO9TofV80vAp4jGDyXSRehxjCCPQN41tgWnrszumxZh768ncaLkvJisMTYXRUXR1blOGRyo8ZRjd9MaBD224DmDGNz1iYE7-c7SzmN79utVGtNePXjz97up7rKNLbV/s320/225097_184235221625855_184225858293458_466035_431639_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5606244958360772642" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">聊了一夜.</div><div style="text-align: center;">感觉就像是释怀了.</div><div style="text-align: center;">我喜欢坦白,</div><div style="text-align: center;">讨厌藏住心底话的感觉.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">我们能开怀地聊,</div><div style="text-align: center;">那是多么幸福的一件事.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">最近发生太多太多不愉快的事情了.</div><div style="text-align: center;">不知道要怎样.</div><div style="text-align: center;">就真的失了方向.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">我们可以很有默契,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我们有很多相像的地方,</div><div style="text-align: center;">但同时我们也有着不同的坚持.</div><div style="text-align: center;">你有你的坚持,</div><div style="text-align: center;">我有我的执著.</div><div style="text-align: center;">对不起,</div><div style="text-align: center;">如果得不到你的认同.</div><div style="text-align: center;">希望你明白.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">我会相信,</div><div style="text-align: center;">一段真挚的友谊是经得起考验、</div><div style="text-align: center;">经得起岁月的冲刷和洗礼、</div><div style="text-align: center;">经得起流言蜚语.</div><div style="text-align: center;">我依然坚信,</div><div style="text-align: center;">心与心的交点,</div><div style="text-align: center;">是坦然和谅解.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">希望在漫漫长的人生道路上,</div><div style="text-align: center;">会有你在友谊的那端携手陪着我 =)</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-88967901715836393562011-05-09T21:48:00.002+08:002011-05-09T22:05:37.844+08:00无题“病从口入,祸从口出”<div>这句话,从小就听了</div><div>上了中学,这句话也在《名句精华》出现</div><div>上了大学,这句话在你生活里存在着</div><div><br /></div><div>人非圣贤 我明白 </div><div>人谁无过 我知道</div><div>每个人都会有自己的优缺点</div><div>这在于你如何去看待与衡量</div><div>恰恰事情也有正反两面</div><div>这也在于你往哪面看</div><div><br /></div><div>比如:</div><div>一个人在意识到不小心说错话了,</div><div>连忙道歉</div><div>过后才发现于事无补了</div><div>无助地望向身边的人,乞求有人拔刀相助打破僵局</div><div>可是、 可是</div><div>没有人愿意这么做</div><div>过后才发现</div><div>那一群人竟然在事发的同一天开启一个聊天室</div><div>在数着说错话的那个人的一堆不是</div><div>却没有人去提起或想起,那个人曾经道过的歉</div><div><br /></div><div>从这件事来看,</div><div>如果明白那个人的话,她会体谅说她真的不是故意的</div><div>她真的知道不对</div><div>但是要加害那的人的话,就一味地说她有多不对</div><div>并非以偏概全地说,如果她没意识到自己说错话,那么她不会道歉的</div><div>难不成比她不道歉好吗?</div><div><br /></div><div>对于好朋友,</div><div>是站在你的立场去为你着想</div><div>为你担忧</div><div>哪怕在别人眼中的误会,</div><div>都渴望好朋友会拍拍你的肩膀,说“没关系,我明白,我了解”</div><div>在别人数落你的不是时,</div><div>会第一个站出来为你平反</div><div>但如果你和别人一样,处于谴责、数落的情况下,</div><div>那么“好朋友”,应该是处于背道而驰的道路上</div><div><br /></div><div>最后的最后</div><div>其身不正的人最没有资格去批评别人!</div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-25991067498595625112011-04-06T21:12:00.003+08:002011-04-06T21:17:24.803+08:00=(<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJpEz0yy9bpqLBQUS82beDc908vV6P8MYMNgOCeiA6GtJQIi_iE6khEJWMq89JBFOyjxqMgap09wm2hI8Rg9dTa4K7zlI1CST-pW6olzyglTEAV8JqbbyFd0lckO_S0JvrQRQSIvwn5ROa/s1600/Sad+Smiley.png" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 256px; height: 256px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJpEz0yy9bpqLBQUS82beDc908vV6P8MYMNgOCeiA6GtJQIi_iE6khEJWMq89JBFOyjxqMgap09wm2hI8Rg9dTa4K7zlI1CST-pW6olzyglTEAV8JqbbyFd0lckO_S0JvrQRQSIvwn5ROa/s320/Sad+Smiley.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592458734214285538" /></a><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">原本带着欢欣愉悦心情参加的旅程,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">到后来才发现,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">自己是最多余的那一个</span> =/</p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuCO-HuqFeLqATX8Egyw_TwmbO3HEDkqGGgkkzOzG8FlWtdCdTLABegKVZqy6k06XI-YLSg-rEhIWVwzEGoP3Kjqmhq8oDaRahIA3EVieu4t-GRoQNZVFx8vg5tyrocNbgzNJbJ4LbWFh1/s1600/walk+alone+sometimes+to+show+that+you+can.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 210px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuCO-HuqFeLqATX8Egyw_TwmbO3HEDkqGGgkkzOzG8FlWtdCdTLABegKVZqy6k06XI-YLSg-rEhIWVwzEGoP3Kjqmhq8oDaRahIA3EVieu4t-GRoQNZVFx8vg5tyrocNbgzNJbJ4LbWFh1/s320/walk+alone+sometimes+to+show+that+you+can.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592458070178958914" /></a><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">我们的未来,我看不见</span> =(</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">曾经的美好,我一辈子都不会忘掉</span>.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">对你的爱,到此结束</span>.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:宋体;mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri;mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin;mso-fareast-font-family:宋体;mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast;mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri;mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin">谢谢你短暂的闯入</span> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px; ">♥</span></p>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-42657890026312619232011-03-31T00:07:00.000+08:002011-03-31T00:08:05.423+08:00心理学博士张怡筠<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><h2 class="uiHeaderTitle" style="text-align: center;color: rgb(28, 42, 71); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><i><span class="Apple-style-span" >正确的恋爱方式</span></i></h2><div style="font-size: 11px; "><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 16px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>一段感情的成功与否,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 不是看是否还牵手,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 而是由感情品质而定,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 很多时候牵手不代表成功,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 分手不代表失败。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 关键是看在这段感情中你是否完成了两件重要的恋爱心理任务。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 你是否更了解自己的需求,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 你是否已学会疼爱别人。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong><strong></strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>爱的反面不应该是恨,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 而应该是淡忘;</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 那为什么有些人的爱会变成恨,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 而不能成为淡忘呢,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 那是因为他在爱里面,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 缺乏了自信......</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 在恋爱中我们需要完成两项重要的心理任务:</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 一、要更了解自己。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 除自我认知概念外,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 让两性恋爱中的自己更完整清晰地呈现出来。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 二、培养我们爱人的能力。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 从自小习惯被爱开始学会爱人。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong><strong></strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>看一个男人是不是好男人有三个基准:</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 负责、尊重和稳定。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 负责意味着他能对自己所说过的话负责。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 尊重则是指,他能够尊重自己的另一半,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 就是我们通常所说的,你和他之间建立的是“伙伴式关系”,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 你们相处的方式是平等的。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 另外,他还要是一个情绪稳定的人。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 有些人情绪容易大起大落,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 这样的人是很难维持一段长久的关系的。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong><strong></strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>上面说的只是好男人的基准。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 如果我们把条件再抬高成精品男人的话,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 还可以归纳出所谓“三心二意”的基准。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 首先第一个心是开心。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 他自己应该是一个开朗的人,</strong></p><strong> 这会让和他一起相处的人也感到心情愉快。</strong><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong><strong></strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>第二个心是关心。关心意味着体贴,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 这是所有女生都很容易理解的。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 第三个心是同理心。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 什么叫同理心?就是设身处地为别人着想的能力。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 同理心是尊重的来源,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 也是情侣间解决冲突时最重要的能力。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 还有两意。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 第一个意是诚意。诚意意味着真诚,真诚又是负责的基础。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 第二个意是善意,就是要能够用善意的方式去解读情侣的行为。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 这是很多人在与情侣相处时很难做到的,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 比如对方不小心迟到时,用恶意的解读方式来理解,</strong></p><strong> 就会开始责怪对方,你不在乎我!</strong><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong><strong></strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>有人买了一只不停亏损的股票,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 就像面对一段无法挽救的婚姻,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 该不该抛出就跟是否应该离婚一样困扰着他。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 在事情上所花出去所有的成本,比如耗费的时间、金钱等,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 当这些成本无法回收时,在心理学上被成为沉默成本。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 为什么我们不愿意离开一个不健康的婚姻,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 为什么不愿意放弃一个没有价值的股票,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 原因是我们不愿意去承认这些沉默成本再也无法回收。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 男生在恋爱里的情绪需求有如下几点:</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 一、自身的能力被肯定。他时常会关心是否有让人瞧得起?</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 二、才华被欣赏。也许他有些嗜好和才华与其工作完全不干,但你仍需学会喜爱和尊重。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 三、努力被感激。他对你以及对这段感情所做的努力需要被感激。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 女生在恋爱里的情绪需求:</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 一、时常被关怀。虽是日常的唠叨,请你耐心倾听。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 二、再三地被肯定。她可能一二再而三地询问你是否爱她。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 其实她只是需要再三地肯定,你需要给她信心。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 三、想法被尊重。(在分享情绪种种时增进彼此感情)</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 保持爱情天长地久的方式:</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 制定一个三乘三的保鲜计划。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 一天三次一次三分钟。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 三A计划,第一Attention,全神贯注。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 在我们日常生活中,我常认为我们能给别人最好的礼物是时间,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 放掉你手边的所有活,关掉手机专心地听对方说话。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 第二Affection,浓情蜜意。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 非口语的沟通,即肢体语言的沟通。没事多抱抱对方。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 第三Appreciation,相互欣赏。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 每一个成熟的女性身体里都有个非常幼稚的小女孩,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 每一个幼稚小女孩体内都有个幼稚的小问号。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 那就是我到底有没有讨人喜欢。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 在这个时候你需要学会称赞对方,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 当然称赞对方外貌、身材是个不错的选择。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 或者她照顾家庭的能力也是不可忽视的。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 当然每一个成熟的男性身体里都有个非常幼稚的小男孩,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 每一个幼稚的小男孩体内都有个可笑的小问号,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 那就是我有没有让人家瞧不起?</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 不管变成多成熟的男性,这个小问号依然存在。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 学会给他肯定,从来没有什么事情比爱更动容。</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 如果现在觉得生命中有一些不完整的地方,</strong></p><strong> 很可能就是这个功课还没有做完。</strong><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> </strong><strong></strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong>爱情其实有规律可寻,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 如果遵循这些心理情绪需求,</strong></p><p style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; text-align: left; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; line-height: 1.5em; "><strong> 当最后一次对对方说我爱你的时候,</strong></p><strong> 我们会了无遗憾。</strong></span></span></div></span>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4631996774893210922.post-27418716072604985372011-03-28T20:19:00.002+08:002011-03-28T20:26:14.672+08:00重要的决定<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" >明年昨日,重生记</span><span class="Apple-style-span" > <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; ">♥</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; "><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" >谢谢丽宇公主跟我说的,</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" >“</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" >讓世界低頭,是一種霸氣!</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" > 讓自己放手,也是一種魄力!”</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">人生路长,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">不放下一些不属于你的,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">又岂能走得远的?</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">虽然我明白得有点迟,但总比还在执著的我好吧?</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">人生完美的事太少,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">我们不能什么都想要 </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: large; ">♥</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; font-size: large; "> </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; font-size: large; "><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204); font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 14px; font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: normal; "><div style="text-align: center; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; ">爱你,也爱自己!</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; ">哈哈 !</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px; "><br /></span></span></div></span></span></div>ahYinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412357326520555964noreply@blogger.com3